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Court-mandated Co-parenting Counseling with the Ex Narc: “I am being required to attend coparenting counseling sessions with my ex covert narc by the family courts (in CA) and I’m having lots and lots of anxiety about it (our first session is in Nov, I left him almost 2 yrs. ago). Every single custody mediation, family couseling session, or attorney/email communication with him turn into my ex accusing me of things I didn’t do, twisting things to make me sound like a monster, and projection. For example, he says I’m a horrible mother and I am not involved with them (I do everything for our children, school projects, Santa, toothfairy, bday parties etc, while he literally laid in bed or drank beer in the backyard), he says I’m violent and angry (projection- he was always yelling at me calling me names and too rough with our kids). All I can do is say that’s not true and its just a he-said / she-said with NO validation. What is the best way to handle these sessions with him? How can I curb the anxiety and be able to shut him down in session? I’m worried the therapist may be duped like some of the other mediators and therapists we’ve seen. Its a toss up, some see through his BS and some get sucked in to it.”
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